I would like to make a few comments here in order to explain my philosophy on BDSM

I am considered arrogant, unapproachable, sadistic, and strict... and yes, that is exactly what I am! But despite this, many people also know a completely different side to me...
For me, SM is not a business idea or a convenient way to maintain a financial status... No, SM and dominance are part of who I am, unchangeable for commercial gain, not switchable at will, and above all, not a role I slip into from time to time. Bending to your wishes or adapting to your inclinations would be a violation
of my own dispositions, preferences, and desires, which I want to see fulfilled in a game just as much as you do. Because the way I am, the way I conduct my games, the way I treat the submissive slave, masochist, or fetish lover—that's exactly who I am! My behavior is always determined by the dominance within me, my reactions are always genuine, and my desire for a game never happens at the push of a button. However, you can influence my deep-seated dominance through your behavior.
For this reason, you will probably only get on well with me if respecting me is your top priority in all situations. Can you submit to someone you don't respect? I don't think so!

The repertoire of my inclinations may change or expand in nuances from time to time,
because a person should always continue to develop and not stand still. But even if you would like a rubber mistress or clinician, I cannot offer you this role. I only feel my true and natural dominance in the combination of two play partners who feel the same passion for the same things. Because remember: I do not see myself as a service provider or a wish fulfiller, even if you pay a fee for our game. In my opinion, a session can only be a well-rounded and fulfilling game if both sides live out their own desires. Therefore, please consider a rejection of a requested appointment as a fair and honest request on my part if I am convinced that this particular constellation would not ultimately lead to 100% fulfillment for both parties. I would like to continue to feel uplifted after a session and have my personal and innate desires fulfilled.

If you find the above lines surprising or difficult to understand, you may discover during the debriefing that you have not only enjoyed a great game, but that you are sitting opposite someone who is not arrogant or aloof at all, but rather a human and open conversation partner...